Why do we love to love?
Why Do We Love to Love? The Biology Behind Our Greatest Obsession LOVE - The Greatest Mystery of Biological Relevance Photo by Jonathan Borba on Unsplash We write symphonies for it, cross oceans to keep it and endure gut-wrenching grief when it slips through our fingers. Across every culture and epoch, human beings display an almost manic devotion to the pursuit of love. Poets call it the soul’s true home; philosophers call it our ultimate pursuit. But stripped down to its bare mechanics, love is nature’s most sophisticated, ruthlessly effective evolutionary adaptation. We do not just fall into love by poetic accident; we are biologically coerced into it. Our nervous systems, endocrine glands and neural circuits are fine-tuned to seek, celebrate and obsess over connection. 1. The Tripartite Engine: Lust, Attraction and Attachment Biological anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher mapped human romantic love into three distinct, neurochemically driven survival systems. Each system operates on se...